Friday, January 27, 2012

Men if u date someone who makes the same amount of money as u do u buy them less gifts?

i have been dating mark for 3 yrs now and get gifts on my bday and xmas only.i got flowers once a 2 cards in 3 yrs.now his exwife(who was a stay at home mom) and last gf(single mom with no money) got flowers monthly,boxes of cards,expensive gifts ect.now i don't want expensive gifts but just wonder why he does not do for me as he did for them.Its not because he got burnt becuase they did not apprecite the gifts i know they did.and i allways give him little gifts/cards for no reason and never ask for anything in return.the only thing different between me and his ex's is i have more money so does that mean i get less gifts/love letters?

Men if u date someone who makes the same amount of money as u do u buy them less gifts?
it should have nothing to do with how much you do or don't make and everything to do with showing love through actions and how romantic he is.



it may also be that he's gotten into a rut and is too comfortable with the situation that he's in and doesn't think about it.



OR he may feel that he's gotten burned in those 2 relationships that you mentioned and he may think that is the reason why the relationships haven't worked out.



my advice is that you TALK to him about it and let him know how you feel. he probably doesn't realize that this bothers you. also, give him an easy option and tell him that the things don't have to be expensive or cost any money at all...a surprise picnic once in a while or letters/cards...are low if any cost....not everything needs to be roses once a month or anything like that. Let him know you understand the financial situation but you would just like a little more acknowledgement and attention.

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