Wednesday, February 15, 2012

What if my ex girlfriend rejects me again what do i do ?

hi split with ex 4 weeks ago becuase of an argument at work, she got with me 3 weeks after spliiting with her bf who she was with 4 years. I treated my ex like a princess becuase i knew what she had been through with her exs. I bought her gifts flowers, chocolettes etc to make up to her and to show her that i cared for her and id do anything for her. my ex says she likes me alot and has got feelings for me but not enough to go out with me just yet. she aslo says therefore she can only give me friendship at the moment. she says she really really likes me alot and some guy at work also lied to her that am married to mess things up. people at work have been spreading alot of stuff about us causing trouble. i want to be with her cos i like her tooo much so i txt her today asking her if she would go out with me? what if she says no to me what do i do then ? she has let me down so many times and rejected me so many times but am so daft dat i still care for her and i like her what should i do

What if my ex girlfriend rejects me again what do i do ?
Give up
Reply:i think you should just give up theres always someone out there that will accept you no matter what that girl will later realize what she rejected and then shes going to be the one coming back to you then after that your the only one to decide Report It
Reply:If she knocks u bck take it like a man. Dont let this female walk all over you.
Reply:move on, meet some one else
Reply:date her sister
Reply:if u ask her and she says no again, u have 2 choices: 1, hang around and keep on asking her and she keeps on messing u about or 2, u move on with ur life. though u care for her, it doesn't seemed to be returned. tough call.
Reply:Man, I have looked at your questions. You have asked 30 of them all the same. I feel for you dude but if you obsess over her like you ask these questions she will never warm to you. Give her space dude.

Women are attracted to (in the main) secure, manly men. Insecurity is a BIG turn off to them. Give it some time and her some space...hopefully you will get back together.



Good Luck!!



xxR
Reply:move on and find someone else
Reply:I don't the people at work have anything to do with this. It's not hard to find out if someone's married or not.



What happened to you is:



a. You were the rebound guy. You absolutely cannot get together with a girl who is just out of a 4-year relationship after only 3 weeks and expect that to work. Sure it happens, but very rarely.



b. You tried WAY too hard. You were showering her with the affection you thought she wanted, but at this stage in the relationship she thought you were being really pushy and insecure, both of which are extremely undesirable traits to a woman.



Your best bet right now would be to tell her that you really like her, that you understand that you pushed too hard and are sorry for that, and that you are there for her as a friend. Then back off. If you are really someone she could be into, then the rest will take care of itself. If not, c'est la vie. Move on and find someone you ARE compatible with.


Making gifts using legos?

I thought it would be awesome to make my friend her bday gift out of legos. Any ideas? or any designs/layouts to help me through these ideas? I would also love to make a flower or a lily with legos- does anyone know how to do that?

Making gifts using legos?
I searched through the Lego web site. Here are some images of what others have built.
Reply:Make it vertical but make sure you use pieces that can be attached to the sides (front and back dimensions as well as top and bottom surfaces) and lay it flat and work on it like that: a lily would be the perfect gift for your friend; ive loved legos ever since i was a child. Good luck!
Reply:I've seen a case for a desktop computer built out of legos (or something very similar).



Relative to flowers, they'd been even worse to keep clean than the computer case.

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What is the best gift for the woman of your dreams?

I love my girl deeply. I've reached a point where I've shown ALL of my love for her emotionally. Now its time for me to prove to her how much I really do love her (with something).



Could it be something as simple as flowers? what do you think?



We've only been dating for three months lol. I know. But for those of you who have fallen for someone quickly, and deeply, know very well what im talking about.

What is the best gift for the woman of your dreams?
Anything from the heart. - really, money doesn't mean much unless it shows how hard you had to work for it.

Perhaps you could give her something that means a lot to you, and tell her to take good care of it.

You should try and write her a poem if you haven't already, don't worry so much about it being the best poem out there, its the thought and effort that she will appreciate.

You could write her a list of the many reasons you love her, or the wonderful memories you have had with her

I love the cooking idea that other's have mentioned. You could cook her dinner, or bake her cookies!!

I personally wouldn't give her flowers since it's overdone, but she may be the type of girl who would love that. (Depends on the girl.) But small random gestures like that, for no reason at all are very nice. The little things add up. Just picking up her favorite candy bar for her or something when you're out goes a long way.

Things like calling her every night to wish her sweet dreams. If she's sick take care of her.

Little gestures like kissing the top of her head, or her forehead, or nose, or even taking her hand and kissing her fingers show that you care.



I strongly suggest you check out this site.



http://www.lovingyou.com/content/ideas/l...



Good luck.
Reply:most of the time a woman dosent always want gifts just tell her how u feel and that should be enough dimonds and perls dosent tell someone u love or have feelings for them for a person to belive it u have to say it
Reply:LOVE
Reply:something personal or diamonds , flowers, chocolates, card, massages, some kind of animal

mixed cd is cool too



Better yet make it an experience, she will never forget that, do something together that makes her happy and you 2 will remember forever



Always make it something unique and memorable, even a little thing
Reply:I personally believe that it's the little things that mean the most. Flowers, cards, corny mixed cds, etc. If your girl is as special as you say she is, materialist shouldn't be that important. It's your thoughtfulness that she should appreciate.
Reply:You don't have to go all out. You don't have to spend a lot of money on something expensive.



If you love the girl, the perfect gift idea will come to you. Think about what you know about her, what you two do together, and her reactions to things. If she loves flowers, buy her some flowers. If she loves cake, bake her a special cake. Hell, if she loves filet mignon, go cook her up some of that.



Whatever you do, she'll appreciate it. Just let her know you're doing it because you love her, not because you expect anything in return.
Reply:Diamonds



really


Who sends "I am sorry" Balloons in the DFW Metro?

Ha ha I fudge up with my girl and I need something other than flowers, gift sets..



I was thinking Giant Balloons...



But I am open for suggestions!

Who sends "I am sorry" Balloons in the DFW Metro?
Chocolate... the good stuff not from the dicount store...

Make a cd of love... sorry songs

Get her something... that she asking for

Give her a gift certificate for massage or facial or pedicure

or How about write her a poem
Reply:lets see, giant balloons work, but be sure you tell her how you feel as well, maybe write out your feelings to her and attach the letter to a balloon. You said you didnt want flowers, but if you had flowers delivered with a note that would be really sweet. Good Luck! :)


Please help me. I need some good ideas for Mother's Day gifts!?

I;m not talking flowers or jewelry, but where I can find things and companies who make photo collages, nice frames that have MOM on them and can hold several pictures (more than 7), BIO DVDs, heritage stuff. I'm really looking for my grandmom who has 6 kids, and lot of grandchildren, but she is pretty young (in her 50s).



Help!

Please help me. I need some good ideas for Mother's Day gifts!?
you can make a scrap book with old pictures from your grandmother past childhood to present day along with pictures of her grandchildren and the different stages in their lives growing up.
Reply:I know several department stores carry photo collages but to get one with MOM on, you'll probably have to ask at a specialty photographic equipment shop, like Black's, Henry's or Japan Camera. It's easiest to call and ask first, rather than drive all around. You might possibly find one at a Hallmark store, too. If you have a bit of money to spend, you can take your pictures to a graphic artist who can scan them and put together a collage on a single sheet but get a definite price quote first.



You can get an inexpensive book from Coles/Chapters that has pages for you to fill in about your life, your ancestry, your marriage details, etc. I think it's called "Family Album" or "Family Legacy" and costs about $8.00.



But don't forget the flowers, too!!!!
Reply:This may sound silly, but look at your local hospital's gift shop. Everytime I am in one I think.. Wow this place has the greatest gifts for everyone.
Reply:mothers are very kind

you can make them happy even with a smile.

why don't you kiss her and say HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!
Reply:Wal-mart photo lab has a lot of different things that can be done with photos and some great ideas. Try going there and talking with some one and explain what you would like to do. If they can't help you they should be able to tell you where to go. Good luck.
Reply:1. Coffee Mug with your picture on it

2. Picture Frame

3. Toaster

4. Shirt

5. Purse

6. Gift Card
Reply:redenvelope.com The story of a lifetime. It is a scrapbook/memory book that she can put together. I got one for my mother - she LOVES it!


Help - Am I in a controlling, abusive relationship?! Please advise me...?

I met this guy a year ago, and he seemed so lovely and bought me flowers, gifts etc. Was so loving and I fell for him and we got together... Now he has changed.

I was warned about him when I first got with him, but I thought he seemed genuine. His ex who my sister in law happened to know, told my at the time best mate that it was the worst relationship she had ever been in - told her what to do, what to wear, etc. I didn't believe her, just thought it was her, but now...

Some of the things he does, like he lies a lot, makes things up like what he's supposedly done in his life, lies about so much that he believes it. He has at times tried to tell me not to show my cleavage. He loses his temper so quick and starts over nothing and blames it on me. I was 5min late for dinner once and he started on me even though it weren't my fault. Get's jealous over my guy mates, will get angry if I don't pick up my phone... I once slapped him cos he upset me so much and I felt he was constantly...

Help - Am I in a controlling, abusive relationship?! Please advise me...?
OMG! You are suck a classic abused woman it is scary!!

First ask yourself is this "normal" If you answer yes then run don't walk to the nearest psych ward and check yourself in.

This guy is dirt and he is playing this wicked and hurtful game with you. DO NOT ALLOW IT!! You are strong beautiful and awesome girl and deserve so much more then this. Your friends and family are probably thinking you are an idiot, prove them wrong! This guy calls you back tell him you are no longer interested and please do not contact me anymore. Remember he has you in a psychological strong hold so you are vulnerable.... BE STRONG GIRL!!!

I am rooting for you!!!
Reply:OMG pleae get out of that realtionship. Its not good for you. You are even doubting yourself. You need to get out and get out now before he hurts you even worse.
Reply:get a gun.
Reply:maybe you do need this break you should write to him to let him know how you feel towards this let him realize what he has and what he's going to lose if he keeps it up...

but the real questions are.. do you truly love him, and is his temper and jealous worth putting up with..

in the mean time make sure some one knows about this in case it gets worse..
Reply:I was reading about "battered woman" last night. All the things you said are described in that article I read. Battered woman is someone who does not leave a relationship because she thinks it's her fault and she deserved the abuse as punishment. And you do not want to be a battered woman! Seriously.. I think you are an intelligent girl.. Please leave the relationship.. Change your phone number.. Stay with family and do not leave the house alone.. Always take someone with you until everything cools off. Good Luck :)
Reply:I don't get it...it sounds like you are saying you already ended it...so just don't go back to him. If you are afraid of what he will do now that you have broken up with him...let your friends and family know your situation and make sure you aren't alone for awhile. No one deserves to be in a relationship like that...take some time to get to know yourself and what you want and then you will be ready to start a relationship with someone who treats you with respect.

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How Should Do You Ask A girl out? Simple? Complicated?

how should i ask this girl out? do woman like it simple, eg..just ask' will you be my girlfriend?'randomly out of no where,,, or complicated eg... flowers, gift at a special place/event?

well how would u want to be ask out?



well the girl im trying to ask out is 23 , if that helps

How Should Do You Ask A girl out? Simple? Complicated?
Well I am very happy that you have someone special on your mind. All girls are diffrent but something such as a gift (for me) would be a little much, unless you have known them for a while. I suggest something simple and sweet. "Will you be my girlfriend" no offense seems kindof sad unless your in highschool. Just tell her what you think of her. "(her name here) I was wanting to know if you would like to have dinner with me sometime. Let her know it doesnt have to be a date. Start slow. Alot of relationships that start fast end fast too. Remember slow is okay. After dinner (if all goes well) ask if you may see her again. Gentlemen always get better results but dont be a total softy. Open doors and be nice. If it doesnt work out then she wasnt right for you. Any woman will respect a true gentelmen oh and dont try to lean in for a kiss at the end of the night. ask her. she may not want to and if she doesnt let her know its okay and you understand. I promise she will respect you asking.
Reply:If the lady you're being infatuated with, likes you well then ask her out to lunch or to have coffee with her. If she accepts your offer, then go out with her, if you and her enjoyed going out together, the next level is asking her out on dates. Present her with flowers and or candy. It's not such an complicated situation, sometimes it takes patience and understanding. Then someday hopefully you would want her for your girlfriend.
Reply:Do not say yo we are an item.



Just ask for a date. I got tickets to a movie, it is "Blah blah title" I'd like to go with you.



Or to an amusement park or heck just for ice cream, coffee or whatever.



But do not go down the let's be an item route.



too many girls nowadays don't want to be Tied Down to A Guy. Weird. I grew up in the days of people being together.
Reply:well,,just feel the girl's attitude..when you think that she's a simple girl then ask here to go out with you in a simple way,,i think it will not depend on how to ask a girl but the way you're doing the conversation when she's with you...
Reply:just ask her. girls hate it when they really like a guy and a guy doesn't ask them out. the girl will never ask the guy out, so if you want to be her boyfriend ask her.
Reply:JUST BE YOUR SELF. DONT TRY TO BE SOME ONE ELSE IT NEVER WORKS. IF YOU ALREADY TALK ITS BECAUSE SHE LIKES YOU AND YOUR NOT SOME STRANGER. TRY IT GOOD LUCK.
Reply:Hey dude if the girl loves you she will give u clear cut signal.

which you may find out easily being with her.

once you are confident that she likes you.

ask her friendly for going out or for movie.

Now I should not tell you what u have 2 do furher



All the best