My fiance-to-be continually tells me that i am too good for her. She loves me and does not want to break up with me, but i just hate having her feel that way. How can i show her that i appreciate her and what we have and make her not feel like i am better than her, but instead that she is the perfect person for me, and is more than my equal? I love her, and i don't want her to have to think about that, and i try to show her by giving her gifts and flowers. What can i do?
How can i make my fiance-to-be feel more like my equal?
try confiding in her, being there for her and assuring her (as you have been) of your love for her, and she will come around, just be patient and attentive.
Reply:Thanks; your comments proved to be very helpful and true. Just so you know, as i have continued confiding in her and appreciating her, she has come around. Thanks for your response!!! Report It
Reply:I always wondered what my LDR saw in me. He was the Valdictorian and I graduated about the middle of my class. We had a great marriage and I do not remember a fight. He told me that he missed me even more after we were married and he went overseas. Report It
Reply:no matter what you do, some people just have confidence problems. they always think that they don't deserve you or that you are too good for them. i don't know what she is like, but buy her something that she would love. it should be something small, but packed with meaning. by her a card to go with it and write her a letter telling her that she is your perfect compliment and no one else in the world would be better with her than you.
Reply:I had a boyfriend that used to say that and it would make me upset. Come to find out years later i found out that it is just a way of saying you're not the one without hurting their feelings.
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