What is the problem if I want to be single for life?

I have never loved anyone in my life, even my parents, but I respect my parents. I don't love, but I respect. I think love is for weaklings and is not manly. Since I am a man, I trained myself from an early age to not feel any emotion besides anger. I never smile and I laugh only with my best friends. Most girls I know are a bunch of cry babies or cheerleaders who are already taken. I could never give a girl a gift or flowers without being embarassed. So right there, that would ruin it. The only thing I have ever been afraid in my life of is love. I will never show it and I don't want anyone to show it to me or I would probably have a stroke. I hate sex because it is a weak, disgusting, and submissive act, and I might end up with kids. I am the controller and dictator, not an inferior woman. Women should play lesser roles. I could never be a father and I have no patience for little kids. So I can't see why people think I am missing out on life when I avoid women and kids altogether.

What is the problem if I want to be single for life?
Hopefully you come back from Mars.....or whatever planet you're on, soon. People like you are the "outcasts " of society. You shouldn't be afraid of something you've never known. That's a ridiculous statement. If you're not ready to date women.....don't. Don't be offended by others who do. And ESPECIALLY don't judge other men because they are married or have long term relationships.



I think you need to take a LONG, HARD look in the mirror. Maybe you're gay? Nothing wrong with that. But your attitude towards women and relationships is absurd.
Reply:I would not tell you that you are missing out on life. Actually, on behalf of women everywhere, I would like to *thank you* for avoiding women and kids altogether! You are doing us a favor!
Reply:I absolutaly agree with "donkeykong".



One advice to add might be to try to figure out why you turned out the way you did. Take a good look at your parents and your childhood. Do this together with a therapist since this is not only about you missing out on a key issue in life but something is fundamentally wrong about how you perceive the world.