What if my ex girlfriend rejects me again what do i do ?

hi split with ex 4 weeks ago becuase of an argument at work, she got with me 3 weeks after spliiting with her bf who she was with 4 years. I treated my ex like a princess becuase i knew what she had been through with her exs. I bought her gifts flowers, chocolettes etc to make up to her and to show her that i cared for her and id do anything for her. my ex says she likes me alot and has got feelings for me but not enough to go out with me just yet. she aslo says therefore she can only give me friendship at the moment. she says she really really likes me alot and some guy at work also lied to her that am married to mess things up. people at work have been spreading alot of stuff about us causing trouble. i want to be with her cos i like her tooo much so i txt her today asking her if she would go out with me? what if she says no to me what do i do then ? she has let me down so many times and rejected me so many times but am so daft dat i still care for her and i like her what should i do

What if my ex girlfriend rejects me again what do i do ?
Give up
Reply:i think you should just give up theres always someone out there that will accept you no matter what that girl will later realize what she rejected and then shes going to be the one coming back to you then after that your the only one to decide Report It
Reply:If she knocks u bck take it like a man. Dont let this female walk all over you.
Reply:move on, meet some one else
Reply:date her sister
Reply:if u ask her and she says no again, u have 2 choices: 1, hang around and keep on asking her and she keeps on messing u about or 2, u move on with ur life. though u care for her, it doesn't seemed to be returned. tough call.
Reply:Man, I have looked at your questions. You have asked 30 of them all the same. I feel for you dude but if you obsess over her like you ask these questions she will never warm to you. Give her space dude.

Women are attracted to (in the main) secure, manly men. Insecurity is a BIG turn off to them. Give it some time and her some space...hopefully you will get back together.



Good Luck!!



xxR
Reply:move on and find someone else
Reply:I don't the people at work have anything to do with this. It's not hard to find out if someone's married or not.



What happened to you is:



a. You were the rebound guy. You absolutely cannot get together with a girl who is just out of a 4-year relationship after only 3 weeks and expect that to work. Sure it happens, but very rarely.



b. You tried WAY too hard. You were showering her with the affection you thought she wanted, but at this stage in the relationship she thought you were being really pushy and insecure, both of which are extremely undesirable traits to a woman.



Your best bet right now would be to tell her that you really like her, that you understand that you pushed too hard and are sorry for that, and that you are there for her as a friend. Then back off. If you are really someone she could be into, then the rest will take care of itself. If not, c'est la vie. Move on and find someone you ARE compatible with.