I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year. I love him very much and we are planning our future together. The only thing that bothers me about our relationship is his problem with being romantic. He would like to be the sweet type but says he has no good ideas. Meanwhile I'm the one coming up with romantic dates and meaningful gifts. What can I do to inspire him to be a little more romantic? Even flowers once in a while would be nice...
What do I do about an unromantic boyfriend?
its funny that you should mention this...on firday i posted that my guy and i have been togethe for a year and a half and during that time he never bougth me anything as far as clothing or shoes..he has sent me flowers and surprise me with sweet romantic cards..but alot of women told me its not about the material stuff i know its not and god knows its not about the material things in a relation..but as women we deserve for our men to show us a little aprreciation..whether it be by buying our favorite nail polish or a favorite gum or candy that we like..then we feel like wow my man pays attention to what i like...i think that you should keep on mentioning what you like and the places that you like to go...dont nagged him about it...but just say babe...i really like this place or that movie...and leave it there..maybe he will take the initative to say babe lets go to that favorite place of yours....
Reply:You can't make the horse drink, but you can bring him to the water.
Maybe when you're out with him, give him subtle clues. I know you're good at that. I've seen and heard subtle clues from my wife since day one.
The problem I face is that I'm afraid that I would one day run out of ideas. That won't happen anytime soon though.
Reply:leave him and trade him in for anew one. or keep him and have a romance partner on the side that he will never know about. a man can't give you what he has not been taught to do and if he has no romantic side he's not going to get one. so if romance is what you are looking for i huess he is not the one.
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